Sex Toys
★ How to Use Sex Toys
This editorial will be about the proper way to use and enjoy sex toys. Most people don’t think that if you use a sex toy in the wrong way there could be serious repercussions, but most people clearly aren’t thinking straight. Safety (and trust being a close second) is the most important thing to keep in mind when operating any kind of sex toy; be it a simple cock ring to a double headed dildo. I believe I covered this in other editorials, but let’s go back and review anyway. Safety is that important.
Let’s start with the cock ring while it is still fresh on the brain. As I have written before, the cock ring is a device that is used by men to prolong and heighten their ejaculation. The idea of the cock ring is to apply pressure to the lower portion of the penis to restrict blood flow. This keeps the wearer from getting over excited and reaching orgasms before their partner is ready to climax themselves. This delaying effect is good for relationships, but always in moderation. Again, I cannot stress enough the importance of taking your cock ring off after the sexual acts are completed. Failure to do so could result in severe tissue damage and never being able to use the penis to the same capacity as before. Emergency rooms around the world are aware of such situations, so it’s not like it would be anything new to them, but it is better just to avoid that scene all together. Nothing and I mean nothing, spoils an intimate encounter more than a trip to the emergency room. I know I have stated this before, but I really don’t think I have to begin to tell you how painful an experience that might be. And with just a little precaution, a little forethought, this scenario could be avoided.
Now let’s move on the insertion sexual aids, your dildos and your vibrators. I don’t think I have to explain to you why safety when dealing with these sex toys is important, but let’s do it just the same. We’ll both sleep better at night.
When dealing with a sex toy that you actually have to insert into your body, the word of the day is preparation. If you have never tried anything like this before, perhaps some lubrication is in order. You do not want your first experience with a dildo or a vibrator to be one that you’ll remember not for the orgasms or sexual satisfaction but because of the chaffing and occasional skin tear. Knowing what size of sex toy you are going to need is probably a prudent move as well. You do not want to buy something that is outrageously oversized and then go home and try it out. This is also how a lot of embarrassing emergency room trips gets started. You think you’re able to handle something, and next thing you know, you’re waiting on the night shift doctor to help you back out what you so carelessly and thoughtlessly plunged inside yourself.
Another thing is that if you’re going to share your sex toy, you might want to have a safe word that tells your partner when you can’t take anymore. That way, they don’t inadvertently hurt your partner while in the act of sexual pleasure. This is also where the issue of trust comes in. You have to really trust the person you are engaging in this act with because you don’t want to be worrying if the person is going to possibly rupture something inside you in their zest to get you and them off.
While we’re on the subject of sharing sex toys, the issue of cleanliness comes to mind. Good personal hygiene should be a prerequisite to any sexual activity that you or your partner engages in. After each use, the sex toy should be properly cleaned and stored away for later use. This just does not apply to people who share their sex toys, but to those who use them solitarily. Just because you are the only one who uses the sex toy does not mean you can’t catch something. Germs and fungus can attach themselves to your sex toy and it could be a potentially dangerous sexual excursion. Proper maintenance and cleanliness is always a good idea when dealing with anything you plan to have inside of you at regular intervals.
The same goes for the blow up dolls. Various juices and liquids could accumulate on your sex doll, and without proper maintenance, you’re just inviting various germs and pathogens to infect your body and make you sick. It is crucial that after each use the sex doll is washed, dried, and put away in a storage area that will not let mold or mildew attach itself to your sex toy.
These are all basically common sense ideas; things your parents told you about but never applied to sexual occasions. When you are out mowing the lawn, after you are done, you rinse of the lawn mower before you put it back up. After you wash the dishes, you dry them and put them away, as to not invite germs. This same kind of thinking should be applied to sex toys; maybe even more so seeing as though the things you are cleaning will be next if not on some of the most sensitive areas of the human body. The last thing you want to do is have a painful rash or a mess of sores simply because you lacked the foresight to clean up after yourself.
So if you follow these suggestions, you should have a safe and clean time with your sex toy. Just by remembering these few basic guidelines, your adult entertainment item of choice should give you countless hours of pleasure and hygienic fun, and isn’t that what the adult entertainment industry is all about? Now go out there and have some safe fun!
